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<h1>There is nothing like a perfect relationship. Each relationship has some hurdles to be jumped regardless of how flawless it may seem.</h1>

But then, some relationships are so full of problems such that nothing good seems to come out ofthem. Such are the toxic type and you need a savior if you are in one of them.

Some common signs of a toxic relationship include:

1. Lack of emotional support

Your partner should be your cheerleader number one and the soft spot to fall on whenever you are going through a rough time. But if they can’t do this anymore, <a href="https://www.pulselive.co.ke/lifestyle/relationships-weddings/reasons-why-you-should-stay-single-id8633786.html" id="25dada13-ddef-5e4b-94c8-3e8f70cb092f">it means you are as good as being single.</a>

It can never be all smooth but then if drains you both emotionally and physically, you need rescue before it’s too late. A relationship shouldn’t feel as hard as trying to crack some programming codes.

3. You are ever fighting

You will not always agree with your partner. So, fights are bound to be there but not 24/7. If you are ever fighting even over the simplest of things, your relationship is in danger.

4. It’s one way

A healthy relationship should be a two way traffic. No one should feel like they are always the ones giving while the other person is always taking and never giving back.

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5. You seek help elsewhere

In a healthy relationship, you should be free to discuss the most intimate things with your partner. If you find yourself seeking help from other people, something is definitely amiss.

Trust is the foundation of every successful relationship. Once it’s lost in a relationship, then the relationship is treading to the wrong path.

Relationships are all about making efforts and sacrifices. You make an effort to show love to your partner, to show you care and spend time with them. When things are wrong, you make the effort to make them right.

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Every relationship has some<a href="https://www.pulselive.co.ke/lifestyle/relationships-weddings/dating-rules-you-should-break-immediately-id8780293.html" id="e3a1b224-9d4d-595b-95ec-c31ffa06ebbe"> rules which are not necessarily written.</a> If those rules are broken repeatedly and your partner doesn’t seem to care at all, they might as well be sending the message that they are done with it.

Earlier on, you would have dinner together, watch a movie or play the cards till mid-night. Now, nothing close to that happens and even when you sit together for dinner, you have nothing to talk about.

You need rescue

9 clear signs that you are in a toxic relationship

<h1>Usually, no one wakes up and decides to bring their life to an end from the blues.</h1>

The process begins early only that we may never notice it.

As the world celebrates the World Suicide Prevention Day today, it’s important to know some of the signs of someone who is suicidal. This way, we can help prevent more deaths by reaching out to anyone with such signs.

Check out some common signs that suicidal people have:

1. Verbal warnings

Although not everyone will talk about their plans to end their lives, some will. And sadly, we hardly take it serious. When someone says things like ‘life is not worth it’, ‘I wish I was not born’, ‘I am tired of trying’, ‘no one understands me’ or even goes ahead to warn that they will commit suicide, things are definitely not juicy. When they don’t get help, such people end up committing suicide.

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2. Excessive moodiness

If you notice a person is suddenly changing their moods, they could be in trouble. The moods may change from extreme sadness to extreme anger for no apparent reason.

Many youths have committed suicide due to hopelessness. If someone repeatedly shows their hopeless and helpless state, they could be suicidal. Such a person will say of how tired they are of trying to get a job, and they are pessimistic about tomorrow.

This a major sign of someone who is suicidal. They prefer being alone and avoid being with friends, family and being in any social activities. Try reaching out to such a person and see if they need help.

5. Change in behavior and personality

A person who has plans to commit suicide may change their behavior and even their appearance. They may no longer mind their words or observe hygiene probably because they no longer care about life.

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Some people literally prepare and plan for their death. They may start visiting friends and family, writing a will, and putting their business in order so that everything is okay when they die.

7. Sleeping problems

<a href="https://www.pulselive.co.ke/lifestyle/beauty-health/physical-effects-of-sleep-deprivation-id8218053.html" id="711bec2e-57c6-503e-9612-74f3b3049e90">They could also experience sleeping difficulties. They can either sleep too much or too little.</a>

Reach out to someone

7 Common signs of suicide to watch out for

<h1>The mere mention of the word gonorrhea sends cold chills down the spine. It’s dreaded and dangerous.</h1>

It’s common among men and women and can lead to infertility in severe cases. Although it’s mainly spread through sexual intercourse, it can also be spread from mother to child during a cesarean section.

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To protect yourself from getting this <a href="https://www.pulselive.co.ke/lifestyle/beauty-health/sti-s-that-can-be-contracted-despite-condom-use-id8259867.html" id="017c36d0-494c-5c04-8783-b7d229534daf">sexually transmitted disease, the best way is to abstain from unprotected sex and avoid having multiple sexual partners.</a>

Although the symptoms of gonorrhea are not always very clear, you should visit the doctor for testing once in a while.

Here are some of the signs and symptoms you should watch out for:

1. Anal discharge. This could be experienced both in men and women who engage in anal sex. The rectum may also be swollen causing you pain when passing stool.

2. Painful sex. This is common among women because the vagina and the cervix could be swollen making them extra sensitive.

3. Bleeding. Vaginal bleeding during sex and in between periods is common among women because the cervix might bleed due to the infection.

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4. If it pains or burns when you pee, you could be having gonorrhea. The pain may also be a sign of other infections hence the reason you should see a doctor to eliminate the probability of gonorrhea.

5. Both women and men experience an abnormal urethral or vaginal discharge which resembles pus. The color of the discharge could range from green, yellow to white.

6. Frequent urge to urinate is also a common sign of gonorrhea in both men and women.

7. Men experience pain in the scrotum or testicles.

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8. Both men and women experience red, warm and painful joints.

9. The eyes may also be sensitive to light, painful and release a discharge that resembles pus.

Be on the look out

9 warning signs you could have gonorrhea

<h1>When a woman loves, she can do anything to have and keep a man.</h1>

It’s said that women love with their hearts while men love with their heads. Anyway, it could be the reason as to why women fall so deeply in love.

Why one would be willing to work day and night to try and win a man who is not ready to be kept is a different matter altogether.

But here are some ridiculously crazy things women will do when they want to win and keep a man:

This is to the extreme but it does happen. When a woman is so much into a man and the man doesn’t seem to be in love, the woman may opt for witch craft to win the man over. Recently, <a href="https://www.pulselive.co.ke/entertainment/hamisa-mobetto-s-first-statement-after-witchcraft-audios-id8813162.html" id="37eb631e-1777-5509-9b34-819635e2c736">Hamisa Mobetto allegedly visited a witch doctor to win Diamond Platinumz. </a>But is it really worth all hustles and dramas of a witch doctor?

2. Getting pregnant

So you think that getting pregnant for him will make him love you more and stick to you? Sorry. If he is gonna go, he is gonna go for sure. This is a gross mistake women make all in the effort to keep a man who probably is already decided. Fortunately, some men choose to stay for the sake of the baby.

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3. Suicide threats

Ladies will make threats of how they will commit suicide if you leave them. While this strategy may make a man stay, it will definitely not be the best relationship. He will only stay because he does not want you to commit suicide but not because of love. You don’t want to live with a person who doesn’t love you, do you?

4. Changing your appearance

Women with esteem issues will bleach, undergo plastic surgery and adopt some styles just to win a man. But a man who loves you should love you without undergoing a breast implant or bleaching. So, even if you changed your appearance such that you shine like the stars, he will still pack and leave if he wants to.

5. Introducing him to relatives

Unless you are so certain that the man will marry you, you should never rush to introduce your boyfriend to your relatives. Introducing him seems like a great way to let him know that you are damn serious about taking the relationship to the whole level. Sadly, this either will not keep him.

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It's not worth it

5 ridiculous things women do to win a man over

<h1>If your bladder has gone out of control and you can no longer hold urine, you could be suffering from urinary incontinence.</h1>

This health condition weakens your bladder muscles and it can get embarrassing since urine can leak whenever you sneeze or cough. It’s common among women as well as elderly people.

In severe cases, you experience an urgent need to pee and you may not get to the toilet in time. It’s however, not a disease but a symptom of an underlying problem or simply resulting from daily habits.

Check out some of the common causes of urinary incontinence:

1. Foods and drinks

Whatever you take down your gut could be the reason your bladder has lost control. Diuretic drinks such caffeine, alcohol and chocolate trigger your bladder to produce more urine and it might get out of hand. Foods rich in spices and certain medications may also lead to urinary incontinence.

As you age, the bladder muscles weaken and reduce their capacity to hold urine. Involuntary bladder contractions also become common as you age hence losing control of your bladder. <a href="https://www.pulselive.co.ke/lifestyle/beauty-health/what-really-happens-to-your-body-when-you-hit-30-id8735257.html" id="d098accd-073d-5c19-89b3-09cf95328036">See some of the things that happen to your body when you turn 30.</a>

Women who have had vaginal birth are at a higher risk of experiencing urinary incontinence. This is because the muscles that support the bladder, the nerves and the tissues may be weakened or damaged during birth.

The hormonal changes experienced during pregnancy and the pressure exerted by the fetus may make it hard to control your bladder.

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5. Prostate cancer

<a href="https://www.pulselive.co.ke/lifestyle/beauty-health/simple-things-men-can-do-to-prevent-prostate-cancer-id8765220.html" id="efd9206e-c128-5eb2-b8c4-453d723c4100">In men, a loose bladder could be a sign of untreated prostate cancer.</a> But in most cases, it’s a side effect of prostate cancer medication.

Other factors that may lead to a loose bladder include; obesity, urinary tract infection, kidney stones, menopause or surgeries such as hysterectomy.

It can be really embarrassing

Here's why you can't hold your urine

<h1>So your relationship is hitting the next level and you are just about to move in with bae.</h1>

It’s such a commendable progress and a sign that your relationship is headed somewhere. However, in as much as you cannot wait to move in with your partner, you need to be prepared for it.

Here are some things you need to know before moving in together:

1. You will have to compromise

<a href="https://www.pulselive.co.ke/lifestyle/relationships-weddings/commandments-of-dating-a-sponsor-id8807619.html" id="465b5d64-9b28-54fe-87ec-146ab93d8363">Relationships are all about making compromises and you will have to do it more if you are planning to move in with your fiancé.</a> You may have to change your eating habits, sleeping hours and the programs you watch for the sake of your partner.

You may not need to write down any rules but you need to come up with the rules of the house. This way, it will be easier for both of you to avoid disagreements. Simple things such as clearing the table after meals may seem very mundane but can stir up everything. Make it clear on who should clear the table, where to put the dirty shoes and such.

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You were used to your freedom but now it will be limited after moving in. You cannot go wherever you want and whatever time you feel like once you move in with your partner. So if you are the partying type, you may have to work on that unless your partner has no problem with it.

4. You will discover hidden sides

We all have some hidden side that may not be revealed unless you are living with someone. So, be sure that you are ready to have some of your dark sides exposed. If you are the lazy type, clumsy, pathetic cook, or snore when sleeping, your partner will soon know it.

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5. The money talk

Most people shy away from discussing money issues in relationships. But if you are planning to move in, this is a must. You have to lay everything on the table, know how much you both need and decide on who pays for what bills.

6. Make a breakup plan

No one wants to talk of breaking up. But life happens and you can never be sure of whether you will be together for life. So, make a plan and agree on what to do and how to share whatever you have in case you ever break up.

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7. You will step on each other’s toe

You may both feel like you are too much in love to ever fight. But now that you will be living under the same roof, you are more likely to have differences. So be prepared for ugly scenes and learn how to solve your disagreements before you make the major step.

Are you ready for it?

7 things you should know before moving in with bae

<h1>Masturbation is definitely not a topic to be discussed over dinner with your parents but it’s something people are doing.</h1>

People hold all manner of beliefs about masturbation but it’s time we debunk those myths.

Here are some myths you need to stop believing about masturbation:

1. Only men masturbate

Masturbation is commonly associated to men simply because more men do it. But this is not to say that women do not masturbate. <a href="https://www.pulselive.co.ke/lifestyle/sex-7-reasons-why-you-shouldnt-masturbate-id6195537.html" id="d60e1392-ebef-556e-923d-b4ee92dbb399">Although very few people will admit to engaging in solo sex, both men and women do it for pleasure.</a>

2. It kills your sex drive

This is a misconception that instills fear in you so that you do not masturbate. But the truth is, there is no scientific evidence to prove that masturbating ruins your sex drive. As a matter of fact, masturbating helps you know your body well so that you can enjoy your sex life more even when you are with your partner.

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3. Masturbation causes erectile dysfunction

This is another big lie. Erectile dysfunction results from health problems such as stress, depression, obesity, diabetes, heart diseases among others. So, if you have other reasons not to masturbate, erectile dysfunction should not be one of them.

4. It causes male infertility

It’s so scary that one would become infertile just because of masturbating. But this is just another misconception about masturbation probably spread to discourage men from indulging in solo sex. How frequent you masturbate has no effect on your ability to impregnate a woman.

5. Masturbation will desensitize you

Having solo sex will never take away your sensual feelings. You might feel a little bit numb after using the vibrator but everything comes back to normal after a while. It’s the same feeling you have after having a satisfactory sex and the senses get back together shortly after.

6. It’s for single people

People assume that lonely and single people are the only ones that masturbate. This is not the case however. Even people in relationships incorporate masturbation during sex to spice it up.

It's all a lie

6 common masturbation myths you need to stop believing

<h1>Men have been suffering silently from erectile dysfunction not knowing what to do or where to go for help.</h1>

<a href="https://www.pulselive.co.ke/lifestyle/beauty-health/causes-of-erectile-dysfunction-id8656131.html" id="67619662-16eb-5467-b3f4-021370b84ce8">A man’s sexual ability is dear to him and so when he has problems with it, his ego is ruined and his whole life feels like a mess.</a>

Hormone replacements and Viagra are just some of the methods that are used to treat erectile dysfunction.

A recent study however has revealed the foods men could eat to boost their prowess in the bedroom. The study, conducted by scientists from the University of Athens suggests that a weekly dose of olive oil is much better than the renowned Viagra.

As per the study, nine table spoons of olive oil reduces the risk of impotence by about 40%. Besides that, olive oil also increases testosterone levels which helps in reducing the chances of getting erectile dysfunction.

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The study which involved 660 men found that those who consumed olive oil combined with a Mediterranean diet (rich in legumes, fruits, vegetable, nuts and fish) had fewer problems in the bedroom. Also, there was massive change in terms of bedroom prowess.

Dr Christina Chrysohoou, who headed the research also advised men to watch their diet and exercise more for better sexual health.

Unlike Viagra which only gives you a short time solution, proper diet and olive oil provide a long term solution with no side effects such as headache that come with Viagra.

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As per a recent study

What to eat to prevent erectile dysfunction

<h1>How often do you replace your household items? Could be you are still holding expired products in your house unknowingly.</h1>

But anyway, we probably are all guilty of reusing some common items that we should have discarded years ago. But it’s only because we didn’t realize that they actually can expire.

Check out this list of items that we reuse over and over again without realizing that they had an expiration date;

For how long have you been using your lipstick? It can take some years for you to finish your lipstick especially if you do not use it daily. If your lipstick has changed its texture and smell, it could be expired already and need a replacement.

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It’s tempting to store your masala and other spices in your kitchen for years because you can hardly tell if they are going bad. The ground spices change their smell and taste with time and should not be used beyond their expiration date.

We at least know that we should replace our tooth brush after every three months. But who thought that the hair brush has an expiration date as well? Experts recommend replacing your hair brush after every year for healthier hair and scalp.

Once you get a perfect bra, you might want to hold to it for years. However, you should replace your bra as soon as it starts wearing out and you should not wear it for more than two years.

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Quite unexpected? Slippers collect germs and are likely to spread fungal infections if not cleaned more often. Also, be prepared to say good bye to your pair at least after every six months.

Perfumes are expected to last for eternity because you only use a spritz each time. While they take a while to expire, they should be replaced once the color or the smell starts changing.<a href="https://www.pulselive.co.ke/lifestyle/beauty-health/how-to-smell-fresh-all-day-id8786294.html" id="b6f8d9c5-ccf7-5421-bf36-fc1b15812ac4"> If you want them to last longer,</a> store them in a cool and dark place.

No matter how often you wash and disinfect your towels, you will still need to replace them after some years. This is because towels collect mold and fungus and washing them alone cannot eliminate the germs.

They don't last forever

7 common household items you didn't know had an expiration date

<h1>Each new day comes with its own opportunities as well as challenges.</h1>

A new month means renewing your goals and habits in order to grow. To achieve financial freedom, you got to begin working for it today by saving more.

<a href="https://www.pulselive.co.ke/lifestyle/money/things-to-never-do-with-your-money-id8726839.html" id="a1d67f59-5d86-511c-a4aa-3fa37a2c5080">To save more and spend less than your income, you must come up with a budget to help you achieve your financial goals.</a>

Follow these tips to help you trim your budget and save more money this month:

You probably can’t do without your phone but you can at least trim the amount of airtime used each day. Instead of making calls every time you need to contact someone, consider sending a text message instead. It’s much cheaper and you will have more to save if you only call when it’s necessary. For you to stay updated, you don’t have to stay on the internet all day long. So, cut your data expenses and you will be surprised at how much you can save.

Walking is a great way to achieve physical fitness and save money that could have been used as bus fare. A 20 minutes’ walk each day will do you no harm and you will get used to it with time. If you are driving, you can reduce your cost of fuel by walking for shorter distances or using public means once in a while.

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3. Don’t eat out

Unless it’s very necessary or you are starving, don’t eat out. Pass by the grocery and get some veggies and go make your dinner at home. It’s not only cheaper but food made at home is always the best for some reasons.

If there is some space laying idly, why not make a kitchen garden out of it? Have it ploughed and plant some Sukuma wikis, tomatoes, onions and other vegetables that you buy on a daily basis.

5. Stick indoors..sometimes

I know you can’t wait for the weekend to go have some good moments with friends. But have you done the maths on how much you spend and how much you could save if you didn’t go out every weekend? Get a few movies to keep you busy over the weekend and resist the urge completely.

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Save more this September

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<h1>How well do you know your penis? You might think that you know it so well but that might not be the case.</h1>

There is so much beside the external part of your phallus and it’s also a little bit more complex than you thought.

Check out these interesting facts about the penis:

1. The penis can erect before birth. How this happens is still a mystery to doctors but ultrasound scans performed on the fetus sometimes show a fully developed erection. What an organ!

2. Your penis is double what you see. What you see is just the external part of the phallus and like half of it is hidden inside your pelvic region.

3. You can actually break your penis and this is no joke. The penis has no bones but it still can break if you engage in vigorous sex. Terrible, right? Be more careful than adventurous with your boy.

4. According to Men’s Health, the average male orgasm lasts for only six seconds. On the contrary, the female orgasms lasts for approximately 23 seconds. How unfair. Anyway, nature has its unique ways of balancing every aspect.

5. Smoking can actually shorten your dick by a centimeter. So you had better quit it asap before your boy makes a disappearance.

6. There is a grower and a shower type of penis. Where do you fall? Well, a grower penis expands and lengthens when getting an erection. <a href="https://www.pulselive.co.ke/lifestyle/hot-pulse/reasons-why-women-are-afraid-of-big-dicks-id8704015.html" id="7436ecdf-9335-5b74-851d-f269764526ac">On the other hand, a shower penis seems bigger most of the time and does not change much in size during erection. Most men however, possess the grower penis.</a>

7. Forget about the brain and ejaculation. Seemingly, ejaculation does not rely on your brain. The signal to ejaculate comes from a region in the spinal cord which coordinates the necessary function. However, brains play certain roles such as delaying the process by thinking about other things besides intercourse.

Interesting..

7 surprising facts you didn't know about your penis

<h1>Rules are all over and we need them for a smoother and happier life.</h1>

Even in dating, rules must be there even though not in a written form. Some rules however are too archaic to be applied and should be broken with immediate effect.

Here are some dating rules you should start breaking immediately:

1. Making out on the first date

There are so many rules regarding the dos and the don’ts of a first date.<a href="https://www.pulselive.co.ke/lifestyle/hot-pulse/you-should-never-have-s3x-in-these-places-id8720492.html" id="43e85aae-64f1-5fcc-951a-7f6d737ca07e"> People will tell you not to have sex on the first date because it makes you look like a cheap bag of chips.</a> However, whether you make out or not entirely depends on the two of you. If you are both in agreement, who are they to stop you?

2. Waiting to have sex until a later date

So you met this new friend but you think you should wait for a couple of months before making love? While it’s a choice for you to make, you should not feel obliged to follow the damn rule. What if you are not interested in a long term relationship and all you want is casual sex? What’s there to wait for? I mean, let nature take its course and if you happen to bond and fall intimate earlier than planned, don’t kill yourself with guilt.

3. The man should always pay for the date

While he may have all the pleasure to pay for your meals and drinks, a lady should also offer to pay sometimes. For instance, he can pay for dinner and you pay for the drinks. It’s fair and shows that you are also willing to invest in the relationship.

4. Asking a guy out

Who said women cannot ask a guy out? Girls, if you have the money to take him out don’t hesitate to. He might want to take you out but he has no money. So why not chip in and treat him for a night out as well?

5. Waiting for the guy to initiate a conversation

Anyone can initiate a conversation and starting it does not imply that you are cheap or needy. Women are afraid of starting a conversation but most men do not really regard them as cheap for starting a conversation. In fact, they wish that they are not always the ones to start it.

6. Playing hard to get

It’s no longer cool to play hard to get. If you like the guy, don’t act like you do not care while in real sense you can’t wait to lie on his chest. Not all men are patient with games and they may just leave the moment you show some lack of interest. This however, does not mean you go saying yes to every man because you need one.

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