If you’ve been wracking your brain trying to find out why you can’t seem to find the right guy for you; the problem may be you.

You’ve done everything; from going on dates to blind dates but the guy you like always ends up with someone else.

What could you be doing wrong?

Here are four possible reasons as outlined by relationship site Relationship Rules.

1.You take life too seriously

Basically, learn to have a little bit of fun and not be so serious about everything. Enjoy life to the fullest.

2.You come off too strong

You meet someone, things kick off well but even before your relationship begins, you’ve already started acting as if the two of you are going to be together forever.

Take things slow and let them work themselves out. If it’s meant to happen then it will happen; don’t force it.

3.Unreasonable expectations

There is no such thing as a perfect man so stop searching for him. The man that you find will have flaws and all but he will be perfect for you. Exercise tolerance.

4.You aren’t interesting to that person

Maybe you just aren’t that person’s type. Sucks but sometimes it be like that.