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Ghanaian media personality and YouTuber, Jessica Opare-Saforo, has shared a piece of controversial advice for men in relationships.
In a recent video widely circulated on social media, the voice-over artist and former Miss Malaika host warned men against focusing all their attention on a single partner.
According to her, such fixations can lead to obsession, which may result in severe consequences.
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If you're putting all your energy into just one woman, you might be setting yourself up for heartbreak and disappointment.
One minute you're vibing with this woman, and the next you're planning your entire schedule around when she's free. You think you're being dedicated, but what you're really doing is losing yourself in the process
Jessica cautioned men about the risks of neglecting their personal lives and standards when they invest too much in a single person.
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Focusing too much on her too soon blinds you to everything else. You start ignoring your own needs, your personal life, and even your standards. Yeah, I said it. Your standards fly right out the window
She emphasised that women can sense when a man is overly attached, which can often lead to imbalance in relationships.
Women can sense when a guy is overly invested. When you're chasing someone like that, it's not a relationship. It's you running after someone who hasn't even committed,
Jessica also urged men to avoid putting women on pedestals and losing their sense of self in the process.
You've given her the power to dictate your emotions, your happiness, and your self-worth, all because you put too much focus on one woman
The truth is, every moment you spend obsessing over her is another moment you're drifting away from your own goals and your own life
The former radio host touched on the heartbreak that often follows such situations, highlighting the emotional toll it takes.
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When things don't go the way you want, it hurts. Bad. You start questioning yourself—why isn't she responding? What did I do wrong? Why doesn't she feel the same way as I do?
Jessica’s candid advice has sparked debates online, with many viewers agreeing on the importance of balance in relationships, while others criticised her perspective as overly cautious.