Unfortunately, some men will say and do anything possible to have sex, which often includes lying about their intentions.
One of the problems that women often face is that guys who are older are slicker about their attempts at getting sex than they used to be in high school. A man who seemed like a perfect gentleman may never call you again once heâs had sex with you.
If you only ever go over to have sex, only receive phone calls or texts late at night, or you just have a feeling that youâre just a booty call, listen to your gut to save yourself from getting hurt later on.
Pay attention to how sexual your relationship is. If he only sees you to âhook upâ and âhave a good time,â in his words, thatâs one of the many red flags heâs not looking for anything serious.
If youâre wondering how to tell if what a guy wants from you, there are signs you can look for.
- He cancels whenever you ask him to hang out with friends
If he only wants to hang out with you alone, you have to assume that heâs only trying to have sex with you. If you havenât met his friends after a month or two of being together, thatâs a bad sign the relationship isnât going to ever get there.
Guys who want a relationship often care about meeting your friends because they want to get a better idea of who you really are with them, and he wants to spend more time with you.
- He doesnât want to spend too much money on you
I understand that dating is expensive, but thereâs something to be said about a guy who wonât even buy you a drink. Aside from it being stingy, it also is a sign that he really doesnât want to invest in you.
Thatâs not a good look if youâre trying to get into a relationship.
- He only calls you at night
Some guys really arenât good at hiding their intentions. Generally speaking, if he only texts or calls you at night, and wants you to just spend the night, heâs probably only interested in a booty call.
A guy whoâs interested in more will make a point to talk to you throughout the day.
- You regularly feel like heâs pressuring you to have sex or that he will leave if you donât put out
If a guy has to pressure you or act like heâs owed sex, then heâs definitely just looking to have sex. Guys who are respectful wonât do this to you, and no one has time for that kind of BS.
- Heâs straight-up told you that heâs ânot looking for anything serious
When a man says this, for the love of all that is holy, believe him!
A relationship hero isnât going to help you with this so donât stick around waiting for him to see the light because he wonât. Heâs already made up his mind and thatâs him telling you itâs not going to happen.
Donât feel sad, thereâs nothing you can do if he only cares about sexual relationships.
- As soon as sex happens, he leaves
Guys who want more tend to hang around longer than guys who are just looking to have sex. They also are more likely to want to hang out with you without sex being on the table.
You might be on a date watching a movie but he thought of watching a movie at night meant âNetflix and chill.â If youâre wondering how to know if he just wants sex, this is a clear indicator.