Julia Guerra

<p>At the start of a budding relationship, many people experience butterflies and first-date jitters. As time passes in a relationship, however, that feeling can begin to fade away.</p>

<p>INSIDER asked experts to find out how you can reignite that spark and maintain the excitement you feel when you first meet someone special.</p>

<h1>  The first date feeling is actually a natural human response to an evolving romance, courtesy of your hormones  </h1>

<p>"When you are looking forward to that first date with that special person, your brain's hormones are already at work," licensed clinical therapist, <a id="66e2f45f-10b9-3050-a270-201fbc6ba095" href="http://www.lovevictory.com/">  Dr. LeslieBeth Wish </a> told INSIDER. "If you are a woman, your brain has released oxytocin, the 'emotional attachment' — the same neurochemical that bonds mothers to their babies. If you are a man, your brain activates vasopressin that aids in sexual desire and attachment."</p>

<p>There are also feel-good hormones like serotonin and dopamine at play, too. The physical reactions to that first date feeling, however, are the work of adrenaline, a hormone released by your adrenal glands during times of stress, high blood pressure, and quickened breath, <a id="5cedfc3a-4fc4-3d35-a287-1bf230f7ddb6" href="http://clarissasilva.com/services/">  Clarissa Silva, </a> abehavioral scientist and relationship coach, explained.</p>

<p>"Increased adrenaline levels is what makes you start to sweat, your heart race, 'butterflies in your stomach' and/or your mouth going dry whenever you are around the person," the creator of <a id="3f4ec1e0-4516-375d-ac05-2baddac69cd9" href="http://clarissasilva.com/services/">  Your Happiness Hypothesis: Breakup Recovery </a> said. "This is what most people think of as 'love at first sight' with this phase of euphoria lasting a few months."</p>

<h1>  The human body isnt capable of feeling that much intensity for too long  </h1>

<p>Getting comfortable in long-term relationships don't necessarily mean the spark is gone, or that you're any less attracted to one another than you were that very first night. In reality, the human body just isn't meant to or capable of feeling that sort of intensity for so long. </p>

<p>"Because there is such an intense firing of hormones and neurotransmitters going on during the beginning of a relationship, after a while, the brain just simply cannot keep up with the excitement," mental health counselor, <a id="73f5b6c9-61a8-32ae-a60e-682f93d58711" href="https://drdanielleforshee.com/">  Dr. Danielle Forshee, LLC </a> told INSIDER. "It naturally has to slow down. It's like running a marathon; after a while, your body runs out of steam. So, the intensity starts to fade."</p>

<h1>  The answer to getting that first date feeling back with your long-term partner is newness  </h1>

<p>Romance is only one part of that first date feeling. A lot of it stems from experiencing something for the first time. So, in order to feel the butterflies again, Forshee said that scheduling time to experience something new together should trigger those same neurological (and therefore emotional) responses.</p>

<p>"Every so often (every few months), plan an experience for the both of you that you have never done before. Something exhilarating, fun, riveting," Forshee told INSIDER. "These types of experiences will turn on those parts of your brain and give you a shot of that fire you remembered from earlier on in your relationship."</p>

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What causes you to feel butterflies in a new relationship, and how to get that feeling back with your long-term love

<p>When you're working from an office desk, movement is probably at a minimum. Meetings are held in conference rooms, so you're basically just carting your body from one sedentary location to the next, and depending on your workload, venturing out of your cubicle for lunch might not always be an option.</p>

<p>And unfortunately, not all work environments are the healthiest, either. There's always a birthday to be celebrated, coffee breaks in a kitchen tempt you with snack-filled cabinet, and breakfast meetings are made a little more bearable with a spread of bagels and cream cheese.</p>

<p>Trying to stay healthy while working a desk job can almost feel like an impossible task if you're only focusing on that eight-hour time-stamp. You can be healthy, it just requires you to put in the time (both in and outside the office) and commitment. Here are a few expert tips on how to do just that.</p>

<p>Easier said than done, but it is possible.</p>

<p>"As a trainer working with clients of all types from professional athletes to lawyers for over 10 years, my motto is and has always been that you have to keep moving," CEO and founder of CrushFit, <a href="https://crushfit.com/" id="ef3c4efb-7e87-425e-941b-b1a79e8cb000" rel="noopener noreferrer"> Ben Williamson </a> said. "Whether it's walking the dog, going for a run, biking to work, or simply sliding the sneakers on at lunch and walking around the business park, 9-5 workers need to do something to keep moving."</p>

<p>Translation: Say buh-bye to takeout lunches and grab-and-go snacks from the kitchen.</p>

<p>"For people who find it difficult to leave the desk to eat, getting a mini fridge and packing it with healthy easy to grab sliced fruits and vegetables is a must to beat the temptation for grazing on chips and cookies," American College of Sports Medicine Certified personal trainer, <a href="https://vshred.com/" id="8e019d95-bc2f-4b1f-b7ac-87b4e152957a" rel="noopener noreferrer"> V Shred </a> 's lead trainer, and an expert in nutrition, Benjamin Suyematsu told INSIDER.</p>

<h3>Find every and any excuse to walk.</h3>

<p>"If you drive to work park far," Suyematsu said. "The key to losing weight with a desk job is to look for ways to move more and sit less. If you work at an office complex park far and walk to and from your actual office."</p>

<p>Also, it's definitely time to start taking the dreaded stairs over the elevator. At least you know the stairwell won't be crowded at 9 a.m.</p>

<h3>Practice mindful eating during your lunch break.</h3>

<p>Getting up and away from your desk to eat lunch is just as important as taking a walk to the kitchen for a coffee break.</p>

<p>"Eat in the common work kitchen area or an empty conference room," Suyematsu suggested. "Use the time to really be mindful about your meal. Taste the food. Take your time and enjoy the meal as opposed to rushing through which only adds air to your stomach leading to bloat and even indigestion."</p>

<h3>Stop assuming you need a gym membership to lose weight.</h3>

<p>Can't make it to the gym before or after work? <a href="https://www.instagram.com/cultivatebycorey/" id="b0bc54fe-30db-4ade-b2d0-55e1e6200ef8" rel="noopener noreferrer"> Corey Phelps </a> told INSIDER no membership, no problem.</p>

<p>"Carve out 30 mins three to four times a week to work out," the D.C.-based NASM-CPT creator of <a href="https://www.cultivatebycorey.com/" id="42ccd148-0890-4410-996d-74ea6d8994b7" rel="noopener noreferrer"> Cultivate365 </a></p>

<p>Bodyweight said. "Bodyweight movements can go a long way to help with weight loss. Adding in resistance bands and dumbbells are not only easy to keep at home or the office, but they can provide a challenging workout that won't break the bank."</p>

<h3>Cut back on the big three: Sugar, alcohol, and high-fat foods.</h3>

<p>"The biggest things to stay away from while trying to lose weight are sugars, alcohol and high fat foods," <a href="https://cruboxing.com/" id="0f0e8864-c50b-4b60-918f-0a3f7bc24b18" rel="noopener noreferrer"> CruBox </a> trainer, Brian Evans said. "It is important to eat a super balanced diet and additionally, stay away from food that is labeled low fat or sugar free. Typically those food have to either added fat or sugar for taste than the normal full calorie options."</p>

<h3>Weight training should be done in the morning for optimal results.</h3>

<p>Pick things up and put them down moments after you rise out of bed.</p>

<p>"While cardio has great health benefits, it's 'fat/weight loss' benefits are short lived,"world-class athlete, Olympian, and expert celebrity trainer, <a href="http://www.donohoetraining.com/about.html" id="f55ac440-4dbd-48b6-9f6c-7fb689032e1f" rel="noopener noreferrer"> Peter Donohoe </a> explained. "The metabolic effect on your body, post weight training, will set your body up to burn fat for longer in your day. Muscle burns fat, and we need to burn fat ... get lifting!"</p>

<h3>Drink a lot of water, but not with meals.</h3>

<p>According to The National Academies of Sciences, Engineering, and Medicine, the average adult should be <a href="https://www.nap.edu/read/10925/chapter/6#p2000cb269970157001" id="517bb7f0-0915-4ddf-8304-bf09c5ce9bc9" rel="noopener noreferrer"> drinking two liters, or eight cups, of water per day, though this number can change based on physical activity, gender, and more </a> . However, Demi Dee of The Knockout Room said your goal should be to drink the recommended amount of water around your meals.</p>

<p>"Aim for 3L of water per day, but drink water around your meals, not with your meals," the CEO and founder explained. "If you drink water with your meals, you will dilute the digestive juices in the food you eat. Drink more water on days when you exercise."</p>

<p>Nutrition and movement are two of the most important elements of staying healthy. The third is sleep.</p>

<p>"Aim to turn the company phone and email off at least 1 hour before you want to go to bed. This will help you wind down," former desk bound IT professional, turned certified personal trainer, <a href="https://www.minimalfit.co.uk/" id="5a3a9cc6-ce75-4238-90c7-5be6aa483a85" rel="noopener noreferrer"> Rob </a> of Minimal Fit suggested. "Also try dimming the lights at home, having a hot bath/shower and using an app like <a href="https://www.headspace.com/" id="0e7de95d-9b47-4486-bc88-97b1d49c7cd7" rel="noopener noreferrer"> Headspace </a> to help you relax."</p>

<h3>Set goals to meet and exceed gradually.</h3>

<p>Feeling healthy won't come overnight, but if you set small goals, those little achievements and milestones will motivate you to keep going.</p>

<p>"Depending on your activity level, it may be best to schedule just 10-15 minutes of cardio, two to three times per week. Once that's manageable, increase it to 20-30 minutes. Then start adding more days until you exercise every day," Scotty of <a href="https://plantbasedscotty.com/" id="9d4cc4b5-200a-49bc-82d6-94a56db1a036" rel="noopener noreferrer"> Plant Based Scotty </a> Certified Strength and Conditioning Specialist (CSCS) told INSIDER. "It's all about setting goals, prioritizing time, and just doing it."</p>

<p>It might feel tedious at the beginning of your journey, but over time you'll find that meal prepping is essential because it sets you up with healthy alternatives whenever hunger strikes.</p>

<p>"Do some kind of prep before the week starts. Slice veggies and put them a small amount in a container for each day. Hard boil a dozen eggs and toss one or two on your salad each day. Stock apples and bananas at home," USA Track and Field running coach/American College of Sports Medicine personal trainer, <a href="http://www.ecrunproject.com/" id="e353629e-b52b-491b-9b9f-72cfdfdc5f0e" rel="noopener noreferrer"> Meredith O'Brien </a> , MS, USATF of the East Coast Run Project told INSIDER. "They are easy to transport and sturdy for the trip to the office."</p>

<h3>Keep a food journal to hold yourself accountable.</h3>

<p>Even if this means simply jotting down whatever you're consuming throughout the day on a sticky note, or plugging it into an app on your phone, O'Brien says journaling keeps you on your toes.</p>

<p>"More so than being a guideline, [food journaling] can bring all important awareness to the food choices you're putting into your body both good and bad," O'Brien added.</p>

<h3>Set regular alarms that remind you to move throughout the day.</h3>

<p>If you're the type of worker to "forget" to eat lunch in the heat of a deadline, you're probably the employee who's glued to their desk around the clock.</p>

<p>"One of the things you can do is set an alarm on a phone or something else that reminds you to get up and move every 50 minutes," <a href="https://workoutanytime.com/" id="dbd39fca-0769-4c9f-a6ad-2e79b94e3383" rel="noopener noreferrer"> Workout Anytime </a> VP of Fitness Greg Maurer said. "If you work in an office building, it's as easy as getting up, walking up and down stairs or taking a walk. If you do that every hour on the hour, there will be a lot of movement."</p>

<p>"If there is one diet tip we can give to an office worker, it is to cut the soft drinks, sweet tea, and energy drinks," said Paul Miller, editor andfounder of <a href="http://www.compressiondesign.com/" id="49b9a0b0-8657-48c1-a1a3-78fc7f4754b6" rel="noopener noreferrer"> Compression+Design </a> . "Learn to love sparkling water, black coffee, or simply ice water. The reduction in calories is significant."</p>

<h3>Give intermittent fasting a chance.</h3>

<p>Intermittent Fasting isn't for everyone, as is the case with any trendy diet plan. However there are a lot of benefits to this way of eating, so if you haven't tried intermittent fasting before, <a href="http://www.fitnessduchess.com/#fitnessduchess" id="81b192a7-0f1a-47bd-9b56-4e6f09331142" rel="noopener noreferrer"> Rachel Donohue </a> suggested giving it a fair try.</p>

<p>"Intermittent fasting is simply not eating for an extended period of time," the personal trainer and fitness personality clarified for INSIDER. "The results can be incredible, especially for desk staffers [due to the many temptations]. To ultimately work yourself up to intermittent fasting from 9 p.m. to 2 p.m. the next day, start off slowly — by pushing your first meal of the day by an hour every 2 days."</p>

<h3>Be aware of the snacks youre stuffing in your drawer.</h3>

<p>It's no secret: A yummy stuffed snack drawer only adds to the temptation to pointlessly graze during an afternoon slump. Instead, Donohue suggested thinking of your snack drawer as a tool to help you to not over-eat at dinner or at lunch.</p>

<h3>Bring a change of clothes to work.</h3>

<p>Are you the type of person to leave workout clothes somewhere visible so you have zero excuse not to workout? This tip from <a href="http://bodyandsoulcoaching.com" id="d181a77c-2f58-4212-9140-09537519fd78" rel="noopener noreferrer"> Lisa Swanson </a> , the owner of Body &amp; Soul Coaching and Fit After 50 Body Transformation programs allude to the same concept.</p>

<p>"Even if you don't go to a gym, you're not going to want to exercise in your work clothes. You can change for lunch and go for a walk. [Or] change before you head home, and when you do arrive home, go straight to your workout room, treadmill, or pop on that DVD and get to work."</p>

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