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If you are going to have sex before marriage, you might as well prepare, right?
While weâd like to live in the normative world where millennials are waiting until marriage to have sex, we live in a world where we have sex because we can and it feels good.
This isnât to say it is right or wrong, just that it is happening.
I think if young people are going to have sex, they might as well do it the ârightâ way (bearing in mind that for some the right way is marriage, but in this case, I mean the ârightâ way outside of marriage. Donât judge)
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If our boys are going to break our girls, they might as well do it the right way donât you think and vice versa for the girls breaking our boys? But this is for the boys mostly.
Yes, a guideline to having sex for the first time.
The setting is important
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Setting is important
If you did English Literature as a core or elective, then you know setting is the place and time of an event. Basically, guys, choose wisely.
A messed up room, dirty bedsheet or poor ventilation is not choosing wisely.
Safety first
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You canât use this new âconsent condomâ unless two people open it together (video)
Remember it shouldn't be in if it is not on (90âs kids can relate). Itâs always wise to play it safe, use condoms, not only will they help prevent pregnancy and STDs, if itâs your first time, condoms may also help you last longer.
Remember better safe than sorry.
More time for foreplay
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We love foreplay.
No one ever died from âtoo muchâ foreplay.
Take your time, take it slow. Kiss, dry hump, give oral if you can. Build momentum before the actual intercourse.Â
If you rush you will crash, and you really do not want to crash.
Expect the unexpected
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You know that mood where you're both just going with the flow, the world freezes while your sex organs interact.
You may have heard this countless number of times but REAL LIFE SEX IS NOT THE SAME AS PORN SEX (itâs all in caps so you get the point). Sheâs probably not going to start moaning as soon as you go down on her. Sheâd probably be so dry the friction would hurt you (see why condoms help).
Manage your expectations, and if at first, you donât succeed, try, try again another time.
Prep the penis
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You donât want the first impression of your penis to be âeewâ. Keep the pillar and the stones clean and tidy. Wash your penis with warm water and mild soap, especially before the act, and shave, it will put your penis in the best possible light.
Dress how you want to be addressed.
There you have it boys and girls, (mostly boys).