When you find yourself saying some things and people take it the wrong way and are often offended, it means you are always blunt.

According to relationship expert and life coach Marie Dubuque, if you know you are always blunt, then you should be very careful about expressing your opinion to a person till you know them better then  try to buffer your words.

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Sentences like "I understand where you are coming from but..." , "I get what you are saying..." or "I see your point..." should always come first before you really tell them what you think.

Instead of totally disagreeing with their opinion totally and causing an argument, it's better you let them know where they are right first before pointing out their wrongs.

Watch this short video by Marie Dubuque: