Were here to help. Weve provided the best sex tips for doing it in the shower, so you can make your next attempt at shower sex hot as helland we don't just mean the water temperature.

Here, real men who love having sex in the shower share their shower sex advice and pro tips for making it smooth, orgasmic, and completely doable.

Use silicone-based lube.

Even if shes incredibly turned on and already wet, the additional water can kinda mess with that. Its just too much water. Thats why you want to use silicone-lube while in the shower. Water-based lubes will wash away immediately. But silicone is thicker, more likely to stay, and can help when you actually penetrate. Joe*

Use the bench.

If you have a bench in the shower, use it, because it gives balance and makes you more stable so you dont slip and fall in the shower. Plus, you can do more moves when using the benchlike you can do reverse cowgirl [or] just her on top, [or] doggy, and she can hold the bench. Ryan*

Dont have the shower head pointing directly on your junk.

You need friction when you have sex, and when you have all that water sloshing around your dick and her vagina, you cant actually get that friction. So I usually position myself that the water is coming down on my back or my girlfriends [back]. This also helps with not getting water in either of our faces, which is a real mood killer. Simon*

Bring toys into the shower.

Sometimes my GF will bring toys into the shower with us, like different vibrators and rings and stuff for more sensations there. The vibrating with the shower head is another thing you can do instead of toys for her. Devin

Tip: Make sure your toys are waterproof before you take them in the shower.

Dont try advanced positions

I was having shower sex with my girlfriend for the first time and we wanted to do really intense stuff like in a bedroombut DONT, because its really different and not safe. Like, dont do things where you hold her up, [or] stuff where no one is hanging onto a bench or wall or something stable on the floor of the tub. We ended up slippingno one got [seriously] hurt, which was lucky, but it wasnt good and left a bruise on her butt! Dave*

Take it all in.

Shower sex can be hot and steamy and you get a good whole view of naked bodies, so take it in! When I have shower sex, I look around everywhere and feel like a lucky, lucky man for having this girl with me. John

Dont get too rough.

[It's] not the time to go rough and do more kinky stuff . Save that for the bed where you have more stability and can move around more freely without worrying about falling and breaking all your bones! Seth*

Sex it up during her period.

Shower sex can be a good way to have sex when its that time, and it doesnt leave blood everywhere or on our bodies, which is nice. Gabe*

Finish in the bedroom.

Just because you started in the shower doesnt mean you have to finish there. My girlfriend and I do more foreplay in the shower, like I finger her and stuff. We makeout. She jacks me off. But when we actually start getting to fucking, we quickly dry ourselves off and head to the bedroom. Stephen*

*Some names have been changed to allow subjects to speak freely on sensitive topics.