I am single now after a six year relationship. It was a good one but looking back I don’t think we had a lot of fun. It was very conventional anytime we wanted to hang out. We would either grab some food at the nearest restaurant or we would spend time together home.

Relationship experts say research has shown that enjoying new experiences with your partner has a higher chance of keeping the relationship stronger.

If you are in any relationship maybe it is time to do the unconventional crazy stuff. Here are four ideas.

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Do something you both consider silly like water fighting. You could also take a dance class even though you both are left footed. Play the games you used  to play when you were children and have the fun of your life.

Go on road trip. I know you are thinking it will be cooler of you have a car but no. Whether you have car or not take a roadtrip. If you have a car i would advice that you pack it and join the public transport. You could go for instance to Tamale and back if you are in Kumasi. Just pick a day and make a return journey to a place you have never been before. This experience will last you a life time.

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Have you ever tried hiking or biking? How about embarking on your own marathon. Bottom line get active. You could even involve some close friends to experience this with you. You will love it. There is nothing like an adventure.

If you have a bucket list (not to imply you are about to die but everyone has a list of things they want to be able to do before they leave this earth) pick one and do it with your partner.

Life is too short to get stuck in a box and not do what you really want to do. Be spontaneous but good spontaneous , one which does not put your life at risk and live this life!