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Youâre basically a sex god and your girlfriend agreesâŚright? Some women are pretty damn good at faking it, and (worse?) some men are terrible at telling the difference.
Sure, there are some physiological signs that she adores everything youâre doing her breathing changes, her body heats up, her muscles tense but theyâre usually subtle enough that you wonât be able to clearly identify them in the heat of the moment. So here are some non-physical signs that she thinks youâre just as amazing in bed as you think you are.
She's Selfish
If sheâs single-mindedly gunning for her own orgasm, your orgasm be damned youâre doing it right. âAs she gets close to orgasm, she enters a trance-like state. Sheâs no longer focused on you or what you want. In other words, youâre so incredible between the sheets that she can no longer concentrate on anything but herself.
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She's Up for Anything
You may have noticed that a lot of women arenât ready to jump right into things they like a little warm up, first. But once she is aroused, you can figure out just how into you she is by pushing her boundaries (consensually, of course).
This could be something as simple as diving into oral sex. Or, try using sex toys. Youâre looking for lowered inhibitions many things that are normally painful, ticklish, or otherwise uncomfortable when sheâs not aroused will become sexy when she is aroused.
She's Not Grossed Out
Face it: There are a lot of things about sex that are kind of disgusting when you think about them in a non-sexual context. Body fluids, odors, and functions, for example. But if your lady is not only not bothered by messy, sweaty, disgusting sex but actually kind of into it, then give yourself a high-five .
The reason: Lowered inhibitions also means a lowered disgust mechanism, according to Kerner. Youâre so good in bed that she just doesnât care. But if sheâs preoccupied with keeping the sheets clean, you may want to rethink your sex strategy.
She Wants to Cuddle
What happens when the deed is over? Does she jump out of bed to get a head start on that project sheâs heading up at work, or does she stick around and try to snuggle up to you?
After you have great sex, thereâs a desire to maintain a connection with your partner,â Greer says. If she jumps up off the bed after a quickie, donât sweat it sheâs a busy girl, after all. But if she never lingers, not even after lazy Sunday morning sex, you may have a problem.
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She Wants to Talk About It
When she brings up your sex life and how it can be improved outside of the bedroom, your first instinct is probably to feel offended. But you shouldnât, because good sex is more about the connection and comfort level you have with your partner than it is about pure technique.
Itâs hard for anyone to tell their partner that they want to do something different in bed.. So itâs actually a good sign if she comes to you it means she feels comfortable enough with you to open up. Think about it like this: She wouldnât bother potentially offending you if she didnât already think you were worth it.