Things you didn't know could ruin your relationship

Marriage is a sacred institution, one that is supposed to be durable and so doing things to preserve its stability is very important.

Speaking ill of your partner when he isn’t around.

We agree the day hasn’t been great for you guys. Probably the whole week but why do you talk about his weakness to his friends and family when you will mend the problem between you two soon. Trust me, you would regret it for a long period. It is high time you put a stop to it. Who knows you could ruin your affair.

Trying hard to solve a conflict before you sleep.

This is not a good counsel! The rage and annoyance is still lingering and there is no point trying to quench it. Whatever the situation is, whoever the problem is coming from, avoid trashing out immediately because you will not make any sense. The situation is rather being compounded. Try and wait for just a day and talk things out. Both of you would have slept over the issue and realise that probably its not worth the quarrel. The truth is that many arguments between couples often seem much more manageable after both people have had a good night’s sleep. When you find, yourself snapping at your partner after a long day’s work or fighting over a relatively trivial issue in the evening, suggest that you both go to bed and resolve the matter in the morning.

Failing to express your needs.

Here is the thing sweetheart, If you don’t talk about what you need from each other, what else do you talk about? Note that it is very important when both of you are able to satisfy your needs accordingly. Couples presume their partners would be able to read their minds and grant them every wish without prompting, but it is a wrong perception. Talk and discuss.

Having boring conversations

I bet both of you are tired of the regular “how was work” “what did you eat” type of questions. Try and add some juicy conversations to the old.

Advance your questions and ask some original ones like “what did your boss wear to the office today,” “What is the funniest thing that happened in the office today” and I bet that would do magic every day.

Everyone likes to think that their partner cares about their day, so interesting questions and conversations would add some spice to your relationship.